Sedona.Biz – The Voice of Sedona and The Verde ValleySedona.Biz – The Voice of Sedona and The Verde Valley
    Sedona.Biz – The Voice of Sedona and The Verde Valley Sedona.Biz – The Voice of Sedona and The Verde Valley
    • Home
    • Sedona
      • Arts and Entertainment
      • Bear Howard Chronicles
      • Business Profiles
      • City of Sedona
      • Elections
      • Goodies & Freebies
      • Mind & Body
      • Sedona News
    • Opinion
    • Real Estate
    • About
    • The Sedonan
    • Advertise
    • Sedona’s Best
    Sedona.Biz – The Voice of Sedona and The Verde ValleySedona.Biz – The Voice of Sedona and The Verde Valley
    Home»Sedona News»Touch
    Sedona News

    Touch

    April 12, 2019No Comments
    Facebook Twitter Pinterest LinkedIn Email Reddit WhatsApp
    Share
    Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Pinterest Email Reddit WhatsApp

    By John Tamiazzo, PhD
    (April 12, 2019)

    John TamiazzoI met Elizabeth Kubler Ross in 1986. She was without a doubt one of the most amazing women I have ever had the pleasure to befriend. Elizabeth was such a popular teacher and workshop leader because she gave so much to her audience. Her heart was open, her mind was clear, and her passion for her work poured out of her, touching everyone she met. I spent dozens of hours with her, talking about her life and my life and sharing stories from our respective work in psychiatric hospitals.

    Elizabeth was one of my graduate school instructors, and she told me a story that took place at one of her medical residencies. She was working in a children’s hospital that was divided into 4 wards. On one of the wards, the children were improving faster physically and psychologically than the children on the other three wards. Their improvements were so noticeable that it was brought to the attention of management. Physicians, social workers, psychologists, nurses, dieticians, and medical residents met many times to discuss and attempt to figure out why these children on this one ward were progressing more than the children on the other wards. They looked at differences in medication, staffing ratios, diet, and anything else that might bring light to the situation, but nothing did.

    Elizabeth decided to visit the ward on all three nursing shifts and discovered that the cleaning lady on the midnight to 7am shift picked up, held, cuddled, and played with each child. She sang songs to them, lovingly touched their noses, their cheeks, stroked and kissed their forehead, all of which generated big smiles and laughter from the children. With all of their combined years of education and expertise in pediatrics, these doctors, nurses, social workers, and other professionals could not do what the cleaning lady did. Her secret was the healing power of touch and unconditional love.

    Sedona Gift Shop

    As one of the primary senses, touch has not received the acclaim and research funding as the senses of hearing and vision. The study of touch or what is referred to as affective touch is considered unchartered territory. David Ginty, a neurophysiologist at Harvard University who is working to delineate the nerve circuits that control all aspects of touch states, “This is an incredibly exciting time. Over the next 5-10 years, we’re really going to crack open the circuits that underlie the responses to different types of touch under different conditions.” Genty believes that in the coming years we will be able to identify and develop new treatment solutions based on touch for conditions like spinal cord damage, chronic nerve pain, addictive disorders, and even autism.

    The research in the area of touch is astounding and I hope that they find what they are looking for but separate from the research, we know from personal experience how wonderful touch feels. Most of us have had the opportunity to get an amazing massage or a deeply relaxing facial. But even more fundamental and significant are the simple acts of holding hands with a loved one;  the feel of gentle hands on your shoulder; a back rub; giving and receiving a hug; the sensual feel of your body touching your partners body while dancing; the wondrous sensations of getting a foot massage; walking barefoot on the sand or soft grass in a park, or simply stepping into the cool and refreshing water in a creek or ocean are all experiences that result in the immediate release of the feel good hormone oxytocin.

    Author Margaret Atwood wrote in Der blinde Mörder , “Touch comes before sight, before speech. It is the first language and the last, and it always tells the truth.”

    John Tamiazzo is the author of self-help books, Love & Be Loved: 8 Steps to Creating Intimacy & Finding the Love You Want; Returning to the Land of Oz: Finding Hope Love, and Courage on Your Yellow Brick Road. Visit his website, johntamiazzo.com to learn more about his Counseling and Consulting Services.

    Healing Paws

    This is an advertisement

    Comments are closed.

    One Bullet Away

    There’s a storm cloud coiling over America, and most don’t see it yet. But it’s there. Dark. Imminent. Unavoidable. Call it fate, call it consequence—but don’t call it fiction. The divide is real. And it’s calcifying by the hour.

    Read more→

    The Sedonan
    House of Seven Arches
    Need More Customers?
    Bear Howard Chronicles
    Humankind
    Tlaquepaque
    Verde Valley Wine Trail
    Recent Comments
    • Jill Dougherty on BEAR HOWARD | SPECIAL TO THE AMERICAN PUBLIC:”Drowned by Design: How Trump’s War on Government Turns Natural Disasters Into National Tragedies”
    • JB on BEAR HOWARD | SPECIAL TO THE AMERICAN PUBLIC:”Drowned by Design: How Trump’s War on Government Turns Natural Disasters Into National Tragedies”
    • Jill Dougherty on Cottonwood, Verde Valley Residents Join Largest Protest Yet to Reject Abuses of Power
    • TJ Hall on BEAR HOWARD | SPECIAL TO THE AMERICAN PUBLIC:”Drowned by Design: How Trump’s War on Government Turns Natural Disasters Into National Tragedies”
    • JB on BEAR HOWARD | SPECIAL TO THE AMERICAN PUBLIC:”Drowned by Design: How Trump’s War on Government Turns Natural Disasters Into National Tragedies”
    • JB on BEAR HOWARD | SPECIAL TO THE AMERICAN PUBLIC:”Drowned by Design: How Trump’s War on Government Turns Natural Disasters Into National Tragedies”
    • TJ Hall on BEAR HOWARD | SPECIAL TO THE AMERICAN PUBLIC:”Drowned by Design: How Trump’s War on Government Turns Natural Disasters Into National Tragedies”
    • Jill Dougherty on BEAR HOWARD | SPECIAL TO THE AMERICAN PUBLIC:”Drowned by Design: How Trump’s War on Government Turns Natural Disasters Into National Tragedies”
    • West Sedona Dave on BEAR HOWARD | SPECIAL TO THE AMERICAN PUBLIC:”Drowned by Design: How Trump’s War on Government Turns Natural Disasters Into National Tragedies”
    • Maureen Smith on BEAR HOWARD | SPECIAL TO THE AMERICAN PUBLIC:”Drowned by Design: How Trump’s War on Government Turns Natural Disasters Into National Tragedies”
    • Dave H. on BEAR HOWARD | SPECIAL TO THE AMERICAN PUBLIC:”Drowned by Design: How Trump’s War on Government Turns Natural Disasters Into National Tragedies”
    • TJ Hall on Cottonwood, Verde Valley Residents Join Largest Protest Yet to Reject Abuses of Power
    • JB on BEAR HOWARD | SPECIAL TO THE AMERICAN PUBLIC:”Drowned by Design: How Trump’s War on Government Turns Natural Disasters Into National Tragedies”
    • JB on Cottonwood, Verde Valley Residents Join Largest Protest Yet to Reject Abuses of Power
    • TJ Hall on Nil Consortium for Digital Sentience Research and LLM, AI Consciousness
    Archives
    The Sedonan
    © 2025 All rights reserved. Sedona.biz.

    Type above and press Enter to search. Press Esc to cancel.